As the website was being promoted, we were frequently asked which section is the best one to start working on. While we feel that ALL sections are important, there is one Section that we feel very strongly about, and if you were to go through one and only one section, we feel that it should be Section Twenty-four: Deal Breakers.
Since knowing if there are any deal breakers in a relationship, it is probably best to be aware of these very early in the relationship. For if a relationship is doomed even before it has had time to flourish, this is best known as soon as possible. Hence, this Section really drives home the point of boundaries in a relationship. Though some wrong doings can be forgiven be forgiven, other deeds may be an insurmountable stumbling block for even the most dedicated partners.
If you are entering into a relationship with full knowledge that your partner is not one that you would intentionally chose to be with for life or for other reasons of principle for you, you should tell them up front. If you have issues in your past that your partner may not be able to tolerate (if your partner became aware of it later on), then it is likely better to inform your partner before the relationship advances beyond just a friendship. While these are difficult conversations, they are conversations that must be had.
Section Twenty-four: Deal Breakers attempts to bring up some of the most basic situations that would put a detrimental and sometimes, terminal strain on a relationship. This includes issues that may be in your past and most importantly, the bounders that must be kept, without exception, without excuse and with the full knowledge that crossing such boundaries would result in a breach in trust that may well be irrevocable. Relationships are built on trust. There are some trusts that, if broken, will not stand the test of time or “another opportunity”. Though few people discuss these boundaries in the early throes of the relationship, we feel that this is a must in ALL relationships. This is an area that should never be left to chance.
Given how strong we feel about this Section, we are now offering it to everyone, without a paid membership. This is just how important we feel this Section is. This is the Section that we would offer, for free, if we knew that we would be able to help people start their relationships on a firm and well-grounded foundation.
Starting now, you may have free access to Section Twenty-four: Deal Breakers with no charges in the future. In fact, if you find this Section helpful and beneficial in your relationship, then we encourage you to share this with others whom you feel would benefit as well.
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Depending on feedback and the popularity of the website and different Sections, other Sections will eventually be made available for free access. While you will still need to have a paid membership to have access to the entire site, these free Sections will hopefully whet your appetite to join as a full member.